Spectrum

There is a spectrum of girls. At one end, the girl has no direction or purpose and is waiting to be swept off her feet by someone who can fix all her problems and be her only friend and her sole hobby and her therapist. She’ll love you and fuck you unconditionally and respond quickly. She won’t cheat on you, or challenge you, or question you. She trusts you implicitly. Unfortunately, this is not exciting. And this not conducive to a life in which I get better every day. 

BUT, at the other end of the spectrum, lives a girl much worse. She’s either very hot or very extroverted or both. She posts a lot online and has a lot of followers and she doesn’t need you until she’s bored. She’s waiting for you to ‘wow’ her. A typical response simply will not do. She’s got options, and she only loves you when you win. She’s waiting at the finish line. She doesn’t introduce you to her friends and she doesn’t care to meet yours. You don’t end up spending much time with her, but that’s fine because the conversation isn’t terribly riveting anyway: she is a brazen narcissist. Unfortunately, the sex is incredible.